Prince Kelly visit village |
“Urohi is a Global village, in Esan West Local Government Area of Edo State. Perhaps tiny in the world map, but because it is in me, it has become a global village.
Urohi is a spirit place where I merge with nature, and I feel so completely whole and perfectly contented, It is just not a place but the heart of my relationships with myself and humanity.” -Kelly O. Udebhulu (21/04/2017).
Though I presently live thousands of kilometers away and visit it seldomly, Urohi is still in control of my inner person and the best place on earth, I cherish very gratifying memories. It endears to me as a place where I started the journey of my life and has the roots of my upbringing under the tender and loving care of my people.
Our house was not an epitome of architecture but was definitely an embodiment of placid people embellished with warmth of love and affection. It is a house ( bungalow ) with an open parlor, seven bedrooms and the back door of the house was connected to the major compound architecturally fenced in a C-like pattern with attached leading five different doors which housed two bedrooms each that were occupied by my father's living five wives as the sixth was dead before I was born. Don't ask me why many wives?
It is not unconnected to the fact that my father was one of the first pioneered registrars at Ubiaja magistrate court and a political councilor under Action Group party during the NCNC and Action Group era in Nigeria.
This inward compound is the adobe of my brothers and sisters joined by our cousins where we would sit for hours together exploring the innumerable stars in the sky, and sharing and caring for each other relishing the delicious dishes made and served by one of my father's wives whose turn was at that evening- the superwoman of that particular evening.
Those immensely treasured moments are cherubic and perpetual in my memory.
I have a special relationship with my father being a clever child as he fondly called me, though I was very young, I can still recall it vividly as he sat in his old fashioned wooden chair whose arms are exceptionally polished to give that mirror surface look.
My father would sit in that chair with all of us around facing him while telling the stories of his times reminiscing the feelings of harmony and renewal. Ooh! Before I forget, I remembered the yellowish color "quinine" (liquid) medicine he would gave us in all illnesses that cured us miraculously as in today's miracle Pentecostal churches.
late Chief A. A. Udebhulu |
It is a beautiful village with picturesque landscapes, incredible variety of rare and native species of flora, peaceful and pristine environs of the echoing hills. The bright moon and glinting stars are visible against the pale sky, casting Urohi village into a luminous play ground at night.
How can I not mention the hospitality and amicability of the wonderful and diligent people in my village who welcome me with the same affection even today when I visit them?
Urohi taught me some of the most profound lessons in human relationship that today shape my world-view about life. This in fact has enriched the quality of life I live today in the so-called city.
My true identify come from my village where I belong. It is a feeling of paradise lost when I am not there, but my family, including my cousins, are in the village and even today I feel the same warmth a real home bestows and I constantly bombard myself with the childhood memories from the village and relinquish myself to the real contentment and gratification I esteemed and still esteem at this marvelous village.
Sometimes, we are comforted by the thought that a place is ours that we belong to it, even come from it, and therefore are tied to it in some fundamental way. Such places reaffirm our sense of self, reflecting back to us non-threatening picture of a ground identity.
And this is what my village is to me where am perfectly content because here I can revisit my upbringing values which have in fact positively affected my life, and this village is extremely meaningful to me as I am free to be my true self without having to pretend to be a person who I am not as in an otherwise pompous and conceited city now.
...to be continued.